So until I hit 30 I was very happy with myself . Yes I had stretch marks from having two babies but I'm ok with that the part I'm now not ok with is the fat on my belly that no amount of workout will change ( cause believe me I've tried!) at 35 going on 36 I can't walk by the mirror without hating what I see :( So I'm going to change it !! Surgery doesn't really scare me nor does recovery ....